20 NovA HUGE Thank You!

A HUGE thank you goes out to three ladies of the HOPE Group for their tireless effort to help other families experiencing loss.  Christine Boudreau, Julie Richardson, and Jeana Catarino planned and hosted the first ever A.C.D.K. Hope Foundation fundraiser last month.  It was no surprise that it was such a huge success.

The ladies raised enough money to create and donate memory boxes for local hospitals. They also put together a fund for families with the unfortunate burden of paying for a funeral and not having the money to do it.  Christine, Julie, and Jeana also donated money to the HOPE Group to help offset newsletter costs as well as costs for the annual memorial service.  THANK YOU ladies!!  Your generous hearts and caring spirits have touched many lives.  Dakota, Chase, Kenley, and A.J. are so lucky to have you three as their mommas!

08 NovMemorial Service Program Deadline

Hello HOPE!  The submission deadline for the memorial service program is NOVEMBER 21, 2011.  Any poem, letter, or song lyrics that you’d like read at the memorial service needs to be included in the program.  Please send all submissions to Donna at webmaster@rindyshope.org by then.  Thanks.

See you all on December 14th for the annual memorial service!  It starts at the regular meeting time of 7:30 p.m.

30 OctA Mass of Healing and Remembrance

Sunday, November 13, 2011 at 3 p.m., a Mass of Healing and Remembrance will be offered at Saint Joseph the Worker Shrine, 27 Lee Street, Lowell, MA.

The mass will be said by Father Terrence O’Connell for all whose life has been touched through the loss of a child.  They will pray for those who lost a child by miscarriage, still birth, abortion, sudden infant death syndrome or the death of a child at a young age.

All are invited to this special time of prayer and healing.

20 OctUnspoken Grief

Unspoken Grief is a safe place to share, talk, support and learn about the impact of miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal loss in our lives. A grief and journey that is often underestimated which can cause women, partners, families and friends to feel silenced – invisible.

17 Oct5, 4, 3, 2, 1…

5, 4, 3, 2, 1!  That’s right…only FIVE DAYS LEFT until the first A.C.D.K. HOPE Foundation fundraiser!  It is scheduled for this Friday, October 21, 2011 @ the Billerica Elks Club.  There will be food, dancing, and raffles.  For more information, please contact Christine, Jeana, and/or Julie at acdkhope@gmail.com  We promise you’ll have  a good time!

Time is running out so you can purchase tickets at the door beginning at 7 pm. If you can not make the event, please send all donations to the HOPE Group. Address information is on the Contact Us Page and we’ll forward it to the foundation.  Thanks!

17 OctSwallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing by Thomas R. Golden

Swallowed by a Snake:  The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing by Thomas R. Golden is a book for men and women about the masculine side of healing from loss. Discover new and powerful ways to heal.  Answer questions like how the genders differ in their healing?   Attain greater understanding between partners.  Examples of successful healing and the uniqueness of each gender’s journey. The book also provides new ways to understnad your grief and ways the individual’s loss can impact the entire family.

Swallowed by a Snake is meant to be a map and a guide through the experience of loss. It will help you move through the pain of loss and into a place of healing and transformation.

Please leave a comment below if you liked the book or not and why.  Your opinion may help another member.  Thanks!

12 OctOctober is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

In remembrance of our babies born too soon, the HOPE Group is posting the following 1988 Presidential Proclamation declaring October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.  Since 1988 the world has seen many changes, but pregnancy loss continues.  Let us reflect this month and support those newly bereaved and those whose loss is still close to our hearts.

Each year, approximately a million pregnancies in the U.S. end in miscarriage, stillbirth or the death of the newborn child. National observance of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month offers us the opportunity to increase our understanding of the great tragedy involved in the deaths of unborn and newborn babies. It also enables us to consider how, as individuals and communities, we can meet the needs of bereaved parents and family members on work to prevent causes of these problems.

Health care professionals recognize that trends of recent years, such as smaller family size and postponement of childbearing, adds another dimension of poignancy to the grief of parents who have lost infants. More than 700 local, national and international support groups are supplying programs and strategies designed to help parents cope with their loss. Parents who have suffered their own losses, health care professionals and specially trained hospital staff members are helping newly bereaved parents deal constructively with loss…

The Congress, by Senate Joint Resolution 314, has designated the month of October, as “Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month” and authorized and requested the President to issue a proclamation in observance of this month.

NOW, THEREFORE, I RONALD REAGAN, President of the United States of America, do hereby proclaim the month of October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. I call upon the people of the United States to observe this month with appropriate programs, ceremonies, and activities.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this twenty-fifth day of October in the year of our Lord nineteen hundred and eighty-eight and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirteenth.

 

Ronald Reagan


Former President


United States of America


 

28 SepThree Weeks Left…

There are only three weeks left before the A.C.D.K. HOPE Foundation’s Fundraiser.  Here at HOPE we’ve been getting a lot of inquiries regarding the event scheduled for Friday, October 21, 2011 @ the Billerica Elks Club.  For more information, please contact Christine, Jeana, and/or Julie at acdkhope@gmail.com

It sounds like it’s going to be a wonderful night filled with conversation, good food, music, and a few fabulous raffles.  Don’t miss it!  Tickets can be purchased at the door.

28 SepA Concert to Remember

The North Shore Chapter of the Compassionate Friends would like to share information regarding a Concert to Remember.  The concert is a fundraiser for Ben Speaks.

Ben Speaks (www.benspeaks.org) is holding its annual fundraiser on 11-11-11 in Newton Centre, MA.  It is entitled “A Concert To Remember” where we use music to take the audience through the various stages of the grief process with music. Also included is a candle lighting ceremony to remember loved ones.

This year we welcome the very talented recording artist, singer/songwriter Karen Taylor-Good (www.karentaylorgood.com) to headline the concert. Karen is the composer of the Compassionate Friends’ song “Precious Child” and will be performing it at this concert.

Ben Speaks is in the process of producing a recording entitled “Forever In My Heart”, a compilation of 16 songs donated by several musicians from the Empower Music Association (of which Karen is a member). “Precious Child” is included on this CD and it will be available at the 11-11-11 concert for a mere $5.00 suggested donation.

Contact the North Shore Chapter of the Compassionate Friends’ Executive Director, Judy Giovangelo at 617-592-6715 or judygio@aol.com for more information.  Click here to view the concert flier and learn more about the fundraiser.

26 SepFall 2011 New HOPE Newsletter

The Fall 2011 New HOPE Newsletter is now being assembled!  We are eagerly accepting submissions.  Submissions may be in the form of letters, poems, song lyrics, etc.  The deadline for submissions is October 23, 2011.  Submissions may be emailed to webmaster@rindyshope.org  Thanks!


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