20 AprThe House I Keep…A New Film

The film is now being released in limited theaters across the U.S.  It is approximately eleven minutes in length.  Please be on the lookout for it.  The film’s synopsis, below, is written by the film’s author/director Jhene Erwin.

In 2007, with one healthy two-year-old child, my husband and I decided it was time to have another baby. Six weeks into my pregnancy, I miscarried. My second miscarriage, of twins, occurred at eleven weeks. What followed was a mourning process the intensity of which was deeply surprising. I began writing poetry to try to come to terms with the loss and reconnect to a world that held no evidence of what for me, was a seismic event. The poetry serves as the film’s narrative.

“For the too short time I was pregnant,
in my blood, I felt a gentle tuning,
a humming…
I held inside, the universe. But
within, a thorn had burrowed deep
and before long…
…a spirit fell from me until
there was silence.”

 

19 AprPregnancy & Infant Loss Ribbons

 

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Ribbons available online.

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19 AprMiscarriage: The Loneliest Grief of All

An article by Kate Evans from a London Online Newspaper

The doctor’s silence tells me everything I need to know. Eventually, he clears his throat, and says in a voice deliberately gentled, “I’m very sorry”. And so am I. There on the screen before us, I can make out the form of a tiny curled foetus and, where a few weeks earlier, its heart was thumping with life, it now lies still in the cavernous vacancy of my womb. This is no longer a baby. It is a miscarriage.

It surprises me how surprised I am. This is the sixth baby we will have lost; you would think that I would be used to it by now. But maybe it’s not surprising that I had to believe in this baby, as though by investing in it some hope, and some love, I could will it into being.

They have run all the tests. Like the majority of women with recurrent miscarriage, they have found nothing wrong with me. They don’t know why this is happening. Read more…

 

19 AprHealing Hearts…Knowing What to Say

It’s hard to know what to say to a grieving parent. Our own fear of loss can render us immobile. And sometimes people feel like they have to think of the “perfect” thing to say. There is no “perfect” thing to say. There is nothing you can say to heal the grief of losing a child. But acknowledging and supporting grief is a way to help healing. Please know that the effort of talking about the baby, the loss, and the sadness will be appreciated, even if it’s not “perfect.”  Read more…

19 AprSue-Ella Signatures Jewelry

Miscarriage, still birth, infant loss. Words I wish more than anything did not exist. In partnership with my beautiful friend Carly from www.namesinthesand.net we would like to offer a collection of keepsake jewellery pieces and photos from Carly’s photographic gallery, which you may like to, wear or keepsake to remember your Baby Angel. Anyone who has visited any of Carly’s sites and especially Butterfly Beach will understand the significance of Hearts and Butterflies to some people. If you are one of these people we hope something on this page can help. Butterfly styles may differ from time to time to those pictured just as butterflies do in nature. At Sue-Ella Signatures we like to honour every life as individually as possible.  Click here to read more…

19 AprCarly Marie Project Heal

Carly Marie Dudley is an Australian photographer who lost her son, Christian way too soon.  She’s developed a website called Project Heal to help families experiencing pregnancy loss heal through her photography.  Click here or the picture below to learn more.

16 AprIt’s On It’s Way!

The newsletter is on it’s way to the publisher, R.W. Traynham in Billerica, MA.  Be on the lookout for your copy in the mail.  Hopefully it will arrive by Mother’s Day!

21 MarI’ll Always Be With You!

Always remember these famous words of Winnie the Pooh,

“If ever there is tomorrow when we are not together…there is something that you must remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we are apart….I’ll always be with you.”

16 MarHOPE for the Day

The “Hope for the Day” mailing list is a weekly note of encouragement to help in the daily walk with grief.  As a subscribed member to this list, you will receive uplifting “Hope for the Day” email every Monday.  In addition to these messages, subscribers will receive brief updates called “News from the SilentGrief.com community.

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14 MarInternational Babylost Mother’s Day

The International Babylost Mother’s Day is on Sunday, May 1, 2011.  United in grief, we find love and support.  This international day is a way for everyone to celebrate the miracles of motherhood.  Please consider joining this beautiful remembrance.  HOPE, should we all get together and plan a lunch?  Let us know…

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